5 Expectations to Avoid When You Learn Mindfulness Meditation Online
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Learning mindfulness meditation online can be effective when you avoid common expectations and myths. Avoid unrealistic expectations, practice consistently, accept distractions, avoid self-judgment, and seek proper guidance to build a meaningful practice.
So, you have decided to learn mindfulness meditation online? Great choice! Just find a comfortable spot within your home with an I-pad, Laptopor Desktopand you are ready to listen to the research, concept, philosophy and techniques of a Mindfulness Meditation Practice. However, when it comes to practicing on your own, your mind may be all over the place. Multitudes of thoughts come to your mind: “Did I reply to that email?” “What am I having for dinner?” etc. Beginners often make a few common mistakes when learning online.
Here are some common Misunderstandings:
What Expectations Beginners Generally Make When Learning Mindfulness Meditation Online
1. Expecting Your Mind to Become Completely Quiet
This is probably the biggest misconception. Mindfulness is not about forcing your thoughts to disappear. Your goal is to become more aware of your thoughts, feelings, and sensations without automatically getting pulled along by them. It’s more about “changing your relationship to your thoughts and feelings”. When your mind wanders, notice it. Gently come back to your breath and your body. That simple process is just ONE part of the learning process.
2. Thinking You Need a Perfect Meditation Space
During your online meditation class, you will discover you really don’t need to be at mountain retreat, sit by a lake or ocean, candles, or absolute silence. (Although, all are acceptable) One advantage of learning online is that you can do it from your own home. A comfortable chair, sofa, a cushion on the floor or any relatively quiet place can be enough. And yes, your neighbor’s dog may bark. You may hear a lawn mower. A helicopter may be nearby, or perhaps there is some construction next door! That is okay. (You will learn how to deal with these common distractions)
3. Trying to Do Too Much Too Soon
Another common misunderstanding? Going all in. You meditate for an hour on Monday, feel inspired, and decide you will do it every day forever. By Thursday, you have completely forgotten about it. Actually, consistency is more important than length. Our structured online program can help you begin slowly with daily short sessions, weekly guidance, and opportunities to ask questions as you start to learn more about your Meditation Practice.
4. Judging Yourself When Your Mind Wanders
“I cannot meditate. My mind is too busy.” Sound familiar? Here is the twist: you notice that your mind wandered. It is actually awareness. Do not get frustrated. When your mind wanders, it’s an opportunity to exercise and build your “focus” muscle and to strengthen your attention span. A Mindfulness Practice is not a performance. It is a learning experience. It is about self-discovery! (not about perfection). It is about changing your relationship with your thoughts and feeling for the betterment of your physical and mental well-being!
5. Learning Without Guidance
There are countless videos, apps, articles, and meditation recordings online. They can be useful, but beginners can sometimes struggle to understand that. Self-learning is a much more sustainable method of realizing all of the benefits derived from a daily Mindfulness Meditation Practice. Guided Meditations are useful and once you learn to Meditate on your own, you will find Guided Meditations more effective. But often, more detailed and regular instruction can make the process much clearer. Live online mindfulness classes can combine explanation, discussion, and practical techniques. Beginners can understand how to meditate, what mindfulness is, and how to bring mindfulness into everyday life.
The Bottom Line!
When you learn meditation online (or anywhere, for that matter) , try to disregard any expectations you have and start your instruction and practice with an open mind. If you still have any queries, please contact us today. Both Group and Private Instruction is available.